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Daniel Ionescu's avatar

What’s your own test before sharing something personal online?

Mine is whether I’d still be comfortable with it sitting there years from now with no likes underneath. 😳

Mike Goitein's avatar

It comes back to that golden intersection between what you want to share and what people want to read from you. Have a strategy, try different things, and tweak until you find something that works.

Daniel Ionescu's avatar

There’s probably a useful distinction between learning what people care about and letting the numbers decide what parts of your life become public. But my critique is less about what the public wants, more about the unsolicited sharing.

DC JAMES's avatar

Thank you, Daniel for this post and in stop. I took away the phrase “some stories should stay yours.” I like the word Smith this and say it this way SSSS = (some stories should stay sacred)

-a witty thought just came to my mind of that’s why we keep our private parts behind a zipper, ha ha! #KeepYourMouthZipped #ZIPCodes

Daniel Ionescu's avatar

You may have permanently upgraded the phrase for me there 😂 Some stories should stay sacred is probably closer to what I meant anyway.

Joshua Davis 🤝's avatar

I don’t owe LinkedIn any of my life 😉

Heather Baker's avatar

One of the things too many people forget is that there are AI scrapers trawling your LinkedIn profile and scraping information about you. The more personal information you share, the more In depth a profile of you can be built.With AI, it's easy to build this type of profile, and you're giving away enough information that can be used to manipulate you, sell to you, Scam you in the future. Don't do it.

Daniel Ionescu's avatar

The “five years from now” test probably needs another question underneath it: am I happy for this to become part of a permanent profile of me somewhere I’ll never see?

Dr. Michael Meneghini's avatar

Balance is key, your story should serve your purpose, not define it entirely.

Daniel Ionescu's avatar

Agreed. I want the personal bit to have a reason for being there, not just because it makes the post *feel* more revealing.

Dennis Berry's avatar

Purposeful visibility, showing enough of yourself to connect without exposing everything, is key to genuine relationships and lasting opportunities.

Daniel Ionescu's avatar

The relationship part matters, but I don’t think closeness has to mean full access.

nihal | deeptech decoded's avatar

I think the line between authenticity and everything else getting blurrier than ever. And sure that creates way more noise (also sth I call noise could be surprisingly valuable for the other too) but ultimately we still get to choose what passes through our filters. :) Thanks for sharing your reflections.

Daniel Ionescu's avatar

I agree... Just because a story would make a good post doesn’t mean you owe it to the internet.