Stop networking, start connecting: 20 must-know strategies for success š¤
Keith Ferrazziās ultimate guide to networking success in Never Eat Alone
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Success isnāt just about what you know ā itās about who you know and how you build meaningful connections. Keith Ferrazziās Never Eat Alone breaks down the essential principles for networking like a pro, cultivating relationships that fuel your growth, and turning those connections into long-term success. Bottom line: stop ānetworkingā and start connecting.
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These 20 principles will supercharge your networking game and set you up to win in both business and life.
1ļøā£ Your network is your net worth
Business is all about people. Without strong relationships, youāre not getting far. Start building your network before you need it, and keep nurturing it like a garden. Youāll need it to thrive in todayās business world.
2ļøā£ Generosity always wins
Forget about keeping score on favours. Give freely ā whether itās your time, advice, or connections ā without expecting anything back. The universe has a way of rewarding those who give.
3ļøā£ Build personal brands, not just companies
Youāre your own brand. Make sure your reputation reflects your values and work ethic. Your name should stand for something, even if you switch companies. Like Nike sells a lifestyle, you sell yourself.
4ļøā£ Connect, donāt network
Real connections come from genuine interest, not business cards. Build friendships, not just contacts. Whether youāre talking to a CEO or a cleaner, show real curiosity and kindness.
5ļøā£ Follow up or fail
Making a connection is just the start. If you donāt follow up, theyāll forget you. Keep relationships alive by staying consistent and thoughtful.
6ļøā£ Itās not what you know ā itās who you know (and who knows you)
The best opportunities come from people who know you. Use your connections to unlock doors that hard skills alone canāt.
7ļøā£ Be interesting, not impressive
Donāt just list your achievements. Show people why theyād want to know you. Share your passions, stories, and dreams. Memorable conversations build lasting relationships.
8ļøā£ Never eat alone
Whenever you can, use meals to connect. Lunch and coffee arenāt just for eating ā theyāre for deepening relationships in a fun, relaxed way.
9ļøā£ Small gestures go a long way
In a world of Zoom calls and emails, a handwritten note or remembering someoneās birthday makes you stand out. It shows you care.
š Audacity is key
You wonāt get anything if you donāt ask. Be bold. Reach out to people who seem out of your league. Take risks and send that cold email. Believe you deserve to be in the room.
1ļøā£1ļøā£ Social bridging is your secret weapon
When you know people from different circles, you become the bridge. Introduce friends who donāt know each other ā it multiplies your value and strengthens both relationships.
1ļøā£2ļøā£ Connect through passion
Find common ground beyond work. Whether itās fitness, art, or a hobby, relationships are stronger when you connect on a deeper level.
1ļøā£3ļøā£ Create your own luck
Donāt leave networking to chance. Be where the right people are ā attend events, conferences, or online spaces. Make those connections happen.
1ļøā£4ļøā£ Say yes to everything ā until you donāt
In the early days, say yes to every opportunity. But once your network is built, get more selective. Focus your time where you can add the most value.
1ļøā£5ļøā£ Stay on their radar
Check in with your contacts regularly, even if itās just a quick text or sharing an article. It keeps the relationship fresh without being overbearing.
1ļøā£6ļøā£ Mentors matter, but so do mentees
Find a mentor to guide you, but donāt forget to mentor others. Teaching sharpens your skills and expands your network.
1ļøā£7ļøā£ Lead with empathy
Networking isnāt just about what people can do for you. Itās about understanding their needs, too. When you lead with empathy, you build trust ā and trust is everything.
1ļøā£8ļøā£ Be where the action is
Show up at key events, conferences, and online spaces for your industry. Be visible and get involved. The more youāre seen, the more people get to know you.
1ļøā£9ļøā£ Forget balance ā aim for integration
You canāt balance everything perfectly. Instead, blend work, life, and relationships. True connections donāt care about strict boundaries.
2ļøā£0ļøā£ Never stop learning
Keep expanding your skills and knowledge. Stay curious, read more, and try new things. The more you grow, the more you can give back to others.
š¤ About the author
Keith Ferrazzi is an expert in networking, a successful entrepreneur, and a bestselling author. As the founder and CEO of Ferrazzi Greenlight, heās known for his groundbreaking work in relationship-building, and has shared his insights in Never Eat Alone and other bestsellers, making him one of todayās top thought leaders in business.